RUBY-3741 Support deprioritizing for all topologies

[comandeo-mongo]

This PR enables server deprioritization on retry attempts for all topologies and apply deprioritized filtering before applying read/write preferences during server selection.

This PR is a part of client backpressure initiative - https://jira.mongodb.org/browse/DRIVERS-3160

[Copilot]

Pull request overview

This PR implements server deprioritization for all MongoDB topologies as part of the client backpressure initiative (DRIVERS-3160). The changes enable retry operations to avoid repeatedly selecting the same failing servers by deprioritizing them during server selection.

Changes:

• Added deprioritization filtering that occurs before read/write preference evaluation
• Implemented fallback logic to select deprioritized servers when no other suitable servers are available
• Added comprehensive test coverage including 8 new server selection test cases

Reviewed changes

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File	Description
lib/mongo/server_selector/base.rb	Core implementation: refactored suitable_servers to apply deprioritization filtering through candidates method, added fallback logic for when all suitable servers are deprioritized
spec/runners/server_selection.rb	Updated test runner to support deprioritized_servers parameter and added skip logic for one known failing test case
spec/spec_tests/server_selection_spec.rb	Added SKIPPED_TESTS configuration to skip DeprioritizedAllSecondaryPreferred test pending RUBY-3768 resolution
spec/spec_tests/data/server_selection/ReplicaSetWithPrimary/read/*.yml	Added 8 new test cases covering deprioritization scenarios across different read preferences (Primary, PrimaryPreferred, Secondary, SecondaryPreferred, Nearest) including edge cases like state changes and all-servers-deprioritized

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[jamis]

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There are some test failures, but they appear spurious.